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4 confidence boosting tips for writers

I hate writing, I love having written.

Dorothy Parker

Let’s face it. Writing can be a slog. Being an author doesn’t always make you feel like you’re crafting fantastic worlds out of the air. Sometimes writing sucks.

If you’ve ever felt the pain of an empty page, or found yourself stuck in a knotted plot that won’t unravel into the story you’re looking for, you know the pain. Maybe it comes in the form of fear, where you begin to question whether or not this whole writing thing is for you. Maybe it’s anger, and you’ve got a wastebasket beside your desk full of hastily half-scrawled and crumpled pages. Or maybe you’re just tired.

Whatever you do, don’t give up! Every writer struggles at some point. Some just make it less visible than others.

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Regaining confidence by focusing on process

Have you ever heard a story where a hermetic author wanders off to an isolated cabin in the woods for months–or years!–before finally emerging with a flawless manuscript? Have you ever thought about that story and mentally evaluated it against your own draft?

If so, you might have felt the deep fear of failure that can result from comparing our work to others who are farther along their writing journey.

Comparing our own work to an award-winning piece of literature may feel unfair, or even cruel. Our thoughts can be troublesome, leading to worries about whether or not anybody else would enjoy the work in the same way we do.

So what can we do about it?

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What to do when you have too many ideas

We’ve all been there. We’ll be plugging away at a story, diligently banging out the words. Before we know it, as if getting a glimpse of a shiny toy on the edge of our vision, we’ll be captivated by something new.

  • This story’s fine, I guess, but I’d enjoy writing this other story even more!
  • Wouldn’t it be cool if I wrote a novella about this secondary character?
  • Sure, the antagonist is bad, but what if there was a different villain? While I’m at it, why not change the hero?
  • You know what would make this better? A PREQUEL TRILOGY WITH LASER BUNNIES.
With credit to Alex Norris (https://twitter.com/dorrismccomics)

My hard drive is littered with abandoned drafts. Yours might be too.

How can we stop ourselves from falling into the trap of giving up on one story in an attempt to pursue something new? And how can we stop ourselves from doing the same thing with the next story? And the next one? And the one after that?

Having too many ideas might sound like a good problem to have, but it can be paralyzing.